We Were Less Connected, But Somehow Closer
There was a time when finding a website felt like discovering a place. Not a platform, not a feed, not another account to follow. An actual place.
My first one was a Dragon Ball Z fansite called Gokuspower. It lived on GeoCities, like half the internet back then, and it had everything a fansite was supposed to have: a visitor counter, a guestbook tucked into the navigation, a row of affiliate buttons, and a layout that looked exactly the way I wanted it to. That is not the same as looking good. If you were actually looking for me, though, you'd usually find me hanging around the PBXAnime forums.
It wasn't always beautiful, and it wasn't always easy to navigate. But it was mine. The sites I loved most were the same way: somebody's corner of the internet, built because they loved something and wanted it to look exactly right. If you liked what you found there, you stuck around. Sometimes for years.
You weren't important to the wider internet. But inside that little community, you were somebody, and that mattered.
The Internet Was Smaller, But the Communities Felt Bigger
It's an odd contradiction. Today we can talk to millions of people instantly. A Discord server can gather thousands of fans in seconds, and a single post can travel farther in an afternoon than an independent webmaster might have reached in a year. By almost every technical measure, we're more connected than ever.
And yet something about those older communities felt different. Joining a forum wasn't adding another account to your collection. You were becoming a member of somewhere. People recognized your username and your avatar. They remembered your signature, your opinions, and that ridiculous argument you started three months earlier about which Gundam series was better.
You weren't important to the wider internet. But inside that little community, you were somebody, and that mattered.